If you’ve already thought it through and have come to the conclusion that you truly want to be back with your ex girlfriend than you are in the RIGHT PLACE. I have gathered the best tips, tricks and strategies for you so you don’t have to search anymore!
What I have learned in pursuit of winning back my own girlfriend, is that it’s never too late to get her back regardless of how awful your breakup was or how bad your current circumstances are. All you need is absolute assurance that you truly love her and want to be with her and that you will do whatever it takes to win her back.
If that’s where your mind is, I’m happy to announce you have a fighters chance to make this relationship work. Before you read on, watch this next video to understand more about what you need to do right now…
Most guys don’t need their hand held to guide them back with their ex. They know their girl better than anyone else. Regardless, it’s always best to have a better idea on what’s worked historically with women in general to give yourself the best chance possible to get her back. And that is all explained in the video above, so I hope you’ve had a chance to watch it. Here are a few more tips that can help…
● You have to remember that she imagines she is hurting much more than you are. This has to do with the different ways men and women deal with personal struggle, more externally for women and more internally for men. Trust it coming form a gal who knows guys. This wall you put up emotionally makes it hard for us women to gauge where you are emotionally and since most men aren’t the best at communicating emotions (apologies to you rare guys who are able to effectively), any little bit of insight you can share with her will give her more context and help her to see where you are at more clearly.
● It basically comes down to trying to simply translate the different emotional languages that you and your ex girlfriend are speaking and find a common emotional language where it is healthy to interact with one another. These links will show that this is actually much easier than most of us imagine it to be.
● The key here can be found in understanding these simple yet powerful observations. Follow through on what this method and these links can offer and you will be well on your way in understanding how to get your girlfriend back.
● For instance, the way in which you approach her is extremely important. If you’ve been in contact then you need to let things be causal for at least a week. Don’t go out of your way to stay in touch her. You don’t need to be texting her multiple times a day everyday. By no means am I telling you to become standoffish or aloof, the key to making this work fellas is by actually opening up emotionally. Despite what you’ve always heard, been exposed to or expected, a woman really just wants to connect on an emotionally and even spiritually level. To do that you have to be open and forthcoming in your dealings with her.
● Keeping the aforementioned in mind, if you approach the process of getting your girlfriend framed around these observations and tips you stand a great chance of making her realize what a good thing the two of you really had; of helping her to remember the things she loved about you. It’s all in the very simple psychological science behind these time-tested methods for bringing true love from the smoldering ashes to it’s beautiful true destiny.
Watch my video below and learn how I did it using nothing but text messages. Trust me when I tell you man, it’s not too late for you either. I hope this helps some and/or at least makes you feel a bit better.
Alright gentlemen, it doesn’t really matter how the split happened, whose fault is not important at this point, it doesn’t even really matter how you’ve acted up to this point. Now don’t get me wrong, these are all factors but they are not deal breakers. That’s all I’m saying. If you’ve decided that you truly want your girlfriend back and are prepared to do what it takes to get her back then you’ve come to the right place.
Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend By the End of the Week
There are several simple observations and tips that have been put together relying on a simple psychological and emotional intelligence premise. For instance, the time since the split is important. Depending on how fresh the emotional scars are may affect the approach you ultimately decide when approaching your ex girlfriend. A fair of bit time has gone by (say a month or more) you may want to orchestrate a “chance” meeting with her and the links on this page will get you started on that. If the split was more recent your best bet is almost always going to be a well-timed, well-thought out brief and straight forward phone call proposing a face to face meeting.
But let’s not get ahead of ourselves here. The links will show you what you need to know in a more in depth fashion. You need to always be cognizant of the fact that she is hurting to no matter what the circumstances are. And beyond that, she more than likely imagines that she is taking the break much harder than you due to the differences in how men and women cope with loss. Women are more external and men tend to be more internal which means we don’t show our hurt as obviously as women. It’s basically just two people saying the same thing in a different language.
● You’ve got to try and put yourself in her shoes emotionally. You know how she reacts to personal strife and struggle; you know what makes her tick. Do your absolute best to put yourself in her emotions by understanding her emotional intelligence and tendencies. This sounds harder than it really is, these links can show you how to get started on winning her back.
● When it comes to dealing with her in this somewhat tenuous emotional state, you need to be very careful about always presenting your best self. And unfortunately, unlike the above tip, this one is actually kind of hard. It just takes a little discipline and focus. In tension filled encounters like these it’s easy to get emotionally worked up. It’s also fairly easy to remain hyper-vigilant on making sure you stay calm, cool and collected. There’ll be time for discussing the little stuff later, now’s the time for winning her back.
● Most likely you’ve got one chance to get this thing right fellas. Every little detail from how you approach her, the kind of things you should be saying (and not saying), where you meet, the amount of reaching out you do, these are all things that need to be thought about before you take your ONE stab at getting your girl back. Don’t go into this blind gentlemen, click the link to get started. If a job is worth doing it’s worth doing well.
An Important Lesson On How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend
If you’re reading this and you’re still not sure whether or not you want to be back with your ex girlfriend, then you’re in the wrong place. Too often do I see men use the advice here to win back their ex girlfriend, then realize just how bad their lives are with their girl back in the picture. Some girls and some relationships are just not worth the trouble and you may be better off without her. If you’re not sure, give it some more time and your answer will eventually show itself.
On the other hand, if you KNOW in your heart of hearts that this girl is the one you want to be with now and in the future and you will do whatever it takes to get her back, then you’ve certainly come to the right place. The information we will provide you with will indeed help you learn how to get back with your ex girlfriend and keep her back for good. It all starts with understanding a few important things about women. Click the link, watch this important video and get started.
Here is a random sampling of some of the wisdom you’ll gain from working within this time-tested method to get back your girlfriend:
● It’s important that you reach out to her. But it’s also just as important how you reach out to her. Meaning that the manner in which you approach is every bit as important as what you say. This needs to be carefully thought through as each situation is different, each person reacts differently to things.
● The way the first face to face goes is very important, but probably not important in the way you think it would be. Whether things go smoothly or horribly, that doesn’t matter, the most important factor is how you handle yourself. You go into that first interaction calm, cool and collected and you leave just the same. Your demeanor is the most important thing. Subtle psychological tips like this can give you the edge in learning how to get your ex girlfriend back.
● Is she already with someone else? It happens, work with it. These tips will show you how to subtly (without her even noticing) exploit his weaknesses and highlight your own. On this one boys, when it comes down to man against man competing for the love of the fairer sex, you HAVE TO prove yourself the more desirable mate; the one who can provide food, warmth and nurturing on a basic level and the one who can provide satisfaction, contentment and true love on a higher level is the one you’ll want to work to get her back.
● It’s of the utmost important that you never come across as wanting or needy, even though you might be. We’ve all felt that way before, that’s normal, it’s just at this stage of the process you want to focus on positives. There’ll be plenty of time to talk about that other stuff later. You need to be your best self and show her why she should choose you as her mate. If you haven’t figured that one out at this point gentlemen then you probably don’t deserve her. Be her Prince.
Get Her Back
If you’ve done the math and you’re certain you want your baby back in your life, then you’re in the right place, the correct internet destination amigo. We shouldn’t even have to say that if you’re not 100% certain you want her back then you shouldn’t be using these scientific, psychologically time-tested approaches to mending a broken heart and winning back what was once yours, but we just did. By paying close attention to these observations and tips you will gain a larger understanding of relationship and inter-personal dynamics which will help you understand your emotions as well as the emotions of those you love.
This method and these tips and tactics have to come from your heart and mean something to your personal relationship. In other words, we’re not going to tell you exactly what to say to win her back (that would be ridiculous, red flag anyone), but we are going to help you reframe the way in which you think about and approach the relationship. This along with a compassionate understanding and willingness to be vulnerable can right any relationship in the stormiest of seas.
● This video will illustrate several important and useful tips for rekindling an emotional fire. Things like conversations geared towards shared experiences (creates a sense of familiarity), going out of your way to show her the things you know she loves about you. Play to what she wants but also be who you are. These are more often than not one and the same.
● By carefully observing the subtle nuances and differences in the ways in which men and women emotionally react to the same situations we are able to gain a rare glimpse into the psyche of the other sex. This simple understanding can serve as a great resource in not only figuring out how to get her back but also in how to approach relationships of all sorts in a healthy and productive way.
● This step is really important. CANNOT stress this enough. The manner in which you approach her is one of the main factors that determines whether or not you’ll get her back. You have to be very careful. Think of it as dancing on eggshells in ballerina shoes. Delicate boys, be delicate. You always come to her as your best you. You know exactly what I mean. Always positive, always giving and open. Resist the urge to be standoffish or engage in the ridiculous “who’s winning the breakup” game. That business is for suckers and folks who end up on Jerry Springer.
● In a primal sense Gentlemen, you’ve got to prove that you’re the male she wants to be with. You have to show strength, you have to show compassion, you have to show understanding, you have to show humility and you have to show appreciation. You have to show weakness and vulnerability with her, you have to let her in. A little change in how one approaches a relationship makes a HUGE difference.
Win Her Back Fast
Alright boys, time to be a man about your relationship stuff and own it. A little critical thinking about your self, about your part in the fighting, your part in the emotional negotiating, can go along way in helping you see what you need to be a better partner. And lets face it, we could all stand to be better partners, lovers and perhaps most importantly friends.
Think often about the things you love about her (no doubt you’re probably already doing this) and meditate on her point of view. Put yourself in her shoes and walk around the great mall of LIFE for awhile. Experience things that happened from the past in her eyes. Truly understand how she is and why you guys worked in the first place. There was obviously something there, it’s not witchcraft.
Think about your missteps and her missteps and the different ways you were off just a little, but enough to make a little into a lot. The ways you may have subtly misread or mislead her in any given situation that escalated. Usually, when emotions flare easily there is miscommunication on one level or another. Basically, you need to think from a more emotional standpoint when it comes to matters of the heart. You think like the hunter-gatherer that you’re programmed to be on a subconscious level. You can’t help that.
Instead of being all business and making sure that everything goes to the right spot and everyone gets what they need and all things are good, you have to think from a different place. You have to approach your girl as a Goddess to be treasured. You have to recognize that you won’t always agree on things and you won’t even always like each other, but there’s something that grows below all of that surface tension that is amazing, everlasting and strong as steel. It’s all about planting those emotional roots, tending and nurturing them and ensuring that the little stuff doesn’t upset the whole kit and caboodle.
This may be the hardest part Gentlemen, but it might also be the most important part. You have to genuinely want it to work, you have to believe that it will work,. You need to buy into the idea to make it come to fruition. You need to be one hundred percent certain that this relationship is what you want and also that it’s the real deal. Not only would you take her home to mom, you’d take her to all those weird, hidden places you loved from your life and share them with her. That Girl.